There are three categories.
There is danger, safer and safest.
Danger: What’s for dinner!
Safer: Can I help you with dinner!
Safest: Where would you like to go for dinner!
Danger: are you wearing that
Safer: You sure look good in brown!
Safest: You are amazing!
Danger: What are you so worked up about!
Safer: Could we be overreacting!
Safest: Here is my paycheck!
Danger: Should you be eating that!
Safer: You know there are a lot of apples left!
Safest: Can I get you to a piece of chocolate to go with that!
Danger: What did you do all day!
Safer: I hope you didn’t overdo it today!
Safest: I always liked you in that rob!